This has been a really tough week
This has been a really tough week
Last Monday we left Tucson feeling pretty dejected, and drove straight to our spot outside Quartzsite. Feeling the need to regroup, and just chill out, this was the logical place for us to come. Our plan was to hang out for a few days, then head back to Phoenix on Friday to set up another art show. But the universe had other plans.
Wednesday morning I went out with my camera to see what I could find, Al said he would probably catch up to me. I got back and he was out walking, without his phone. A couple hours later, I’m getting worried and finally saw him in the desert out my back window. I ran over to him, to find him with stroke like symptoms. I got him back to the RV, got him relaxed, and the symptoms subsided. We were thinking TIA, which is a mini stroke with no lasting effects. Since we don’t have insurance, we decided to wait and see how he felt. The next morning he still felt “off” and his chest was heavy. So we drove the 80 miles to Lake Havasu hospital ER. Long story short, they did a bunch of tests, kept him over night, and concluded that it was a severe panic attack that resulted in the TIA symptoms. Thankfully everything came back negative, so we know that there isn’t a real stroke lurking in his brain somewhere. The dogs and I stayed in a hotel in Havasu, and they were both so worried that something was obviously not right. Torrey about jumped out of her skin when we picked Al up at the hospital she was so excited to see him, and Roxy had to sit with him the whole ride home.
So now we are just relaxing in the quite of the desert, making sure that Al feels better, then we will make plans. In the mean time, the desert is going crazy with flowers from all the rain we have had. I have never seen this many flowers in this area.
Golden Suncup with raindrops.
Daisy desert star. These I’ve seen here before, but not like this year.
Scorpion weed. There is always some of this here, but now the hillsides are covered with it.
Lots, and lots of desert lupine too. They glow like stained glass at sunset.
This shot of Torrey is actually from the first day we were here. It rained all night the first night, and there were puddles everywhere.
This is just something fun, and new. I got a bunch of digital scrapbook stuff to play around with. This is my first attempt. I like it, because if I make a mistake or don’t like an element I add, I just delete it.
Anyway, lesson for this week. Nothing….nothing, is more important than family. Spouses, parents, children, or siblings. Whatever your family is, hold them tight, tell them you love them, and spend time with them.
Hello! I am so sorry you had a tough week. But thankful all is okay. I have not been blogging much as I have been busy with our active life and I am more on instagram. I am going to try to blog more. Crossing my fingers for that.
Your photos are spectacular. We are loving this lush desert. The wildflowers are superb!
Prayers for you and your sweet ones!
Thanks tons. Ya, the flowers are unreal this year. It’s a nice distraction.
My friend, when I came to the part in your post about the “stroke-like symptoms”, I just said, “OH NO….” – I also read an Instagram post yesterday of an incident with an Instagrammer’s spouse and it was too much to bear. I am SO RELIEVED that Al is fine, and I’ve had those kind of panic attacks before too. You are so right; it is imperative that we not take one another for granted and every day is the perfect opportunity to live to the fullest in love. I send you my sincerest wishes for a much easier and happy road ahead as we go into spring. Your photos are marvelous.
Thanks Anita. The desert is a good place to recuperate, and that’s what is needed most.
Hello, I am so glad your Al is ok. I am sure being tested is the right thing to do, for peace of mind. Sending prayers for you, Al and the sweet dogs. Enjoy your day and the new week ahead.
Yes, the peace of mind was good.
Glad it wasn’t more serious! How scary! That whole insurance thing sucks. Mom pays so much in premiums she can’t afford to even use it because the deductible is so high. They don’t cover emergencies either, so we have a ton of expenses coming up with the broken ankle. It’s bad enough to have a health issue, but the bills really keep you from getting proper treatment sometimes which isn’t right. We are not into politics, but out one hope is that the healthcare thing gets improved because the way it is, it is not usable for those of us who are not employed. Premiums and deductibles have doubled in the past few years and it can’t go on. Take care of yourselves.
Ya, this whole insurance thing sucks badly. Makes it so hard to make wise health decisions. We can’t afford the monthly bill, so have always opted out. Plus, we don’t have a house anywhere and that excludes us too. We need national health like Canada has.
What a scare – so grateful that Al is not dealing with stroke/heart attack. Stress really is a killer.
I’m not sure people realize just how bad stress can be.
You must have been terrified! So glad he is okay. Interesting, I’ve seldom thought about the choices one is forced to make because one doesn’s have insurance. In Canada, we’d be automatically covered for that initial doctor or hospital visit. Which, given for Al it was an anxiety attack, it must add to the anxiety. I am so happy to hear he is feeling better and that the desert is providing the calm and serenity you need — and the beauty too! Hugs to both of you and Torrey and Roxy too!
Thanks so much. It’s very hard to not have that option for health care when you need it.
What a scare! I’m so glad Al is OK.
Oh Dear God what a horrible, horrible scare. You must have been beyond terrified. So glad you went to the hospital and I am even more glad that there was NO evidence of a stroke. Thank GOD!!!!!
Thanks Caren, it was pretty scary. And I’m just glad he’s OK.
Amen to that! I am just so relieved for you and Al that he is OK. Panic attacks can be so scary. This kind of thing is SO stressful for everyone. I’m glad you have the dogs and your photography to help bring you back to even again.
Ya, having the dogs to focus on, and my photography to take me away for a minute, is nice.
I can only imagine how frightening that must have been and add to that, you were so far away from getting help. I’m so glad Al is going to be OK.
Hugs
Thanks for the hugs.
Oh my goodness – how scary! But I’m glad the test results all came back okay. (I agree – we should have healthcare like Canada. I don’t think it’s right that companies make money off of sick people, and people can’t just go to the doctor/ER when they need to because they are worried about the crazy-expensive bills. There has to be a better way. Unfortunately, the insurance companies are very powerful so I can’t see things changing much any time soon.)
I’m glad you have some beautiful nature – and of course your beautiful pups – for distraction.
Healthcare here is a mess, that’s for sure. I worked in a hospital for 15 years and saw it all first hand. Right now, nature is our cure all.
I’m glad he’s okay. Please give him our regards. <3
Thanks Susan, I will.
Absolutely nothing is more therapeutic than being surrounded by beauty and the ones you love. I hope you find the heart healing you need.
Thank goodness Al is okay!! Stress is a very difficult thing to manage at times. I’m glad you have your photography and nature to help you work through it.
And, yes, nothing is more important than family.
I have thought of you often since reading your account of this on FB. I’m so incredibly relieved that Al is okay. That was a terrifying story.
Your incredible flower photos are almost lost with the drama of the story but they show the vibrance of life there in the desert. I hope that the beauty helps you and Al to relax and heal. I’ll be thinking of you.
So glad to hear Al is okay! Driving 80 miles to the hospital must be the longest drive for you…